Sunday, April 18, 2010

Being alone or lonely is just how you define yourself

Being alone or lonely is just how you define yourself

Sometimes I surprised myself by being able to do things alone when I thought I needed company to be able to do it.Sometimes I am pleased with myself for being able to cross the finish line alone.

Close friends think I’m sometimes a loner.Acquaintances think I’m a loner at heart.Strangers think I’m lonely girl.

Maybe I was just raised to be independent.

I don’t have the need to be chauffeured here and there by my parents when I cycled or walked to school.

I don’t have the need to be chauffeured to tuitions far away in KL or Puchong when I can pretty well take a bus,LRT or even drive there at times.

I don’t have the need to be accompanied by my parents when I fly alone to India to start a brand new chapter of my life.

I don’t have the need to be accompanied by my friends when I am determined to take a 15hours bus ride by myself all the way from Bangalore to Manipal.

Everything that matters is how determined you are to reach your goal.

I don’t mind walking alone when I have classes to attend

I don’t mind walking alone when I have things to buy

I don’t mind travelling alone when all I want to do is be home

I don’t mind being alone

I love being alone at times. Sometimes I wish the whole world would disappear and let me have some ‘me-time’. It’s my time.It’s my day.

I just don’t want to answer the door when it’s my time

I just don’t want to answer calls when it’s my time

I just don’t want to care when it’s my time

It’s my right not to answer you.It’s my right not to care.It’s my right and I should be prioritizing my rights and my time.

I’ve learnt to say no to things that eats up my time

I’ve learnt to avoid people that eats up my time

Fight for your time. I’ve learnt well. What about you?

Happy Sunday readers ^^

6 comments:

  1. True also, being alone doesnt mean lonely... =D

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  2. It was like listening to myself...well said...:-)

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  3. this is a very nice post :)

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  4. hi shane..didnt know you read me :) thanks for dropping by girl..take care

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